Women’s day reminder
⚪️Today is not about celebrating femininity—it’s about equality. This day was created to demand equal rights: the right to vote, equal pay, access to education… things that are now normal in many places, but still not everywhere. And even where they are, equality on paper doesn’t mean equality in reality.
⚪️Just days ago, I spoke with women who feel overwhelmed, expected to do it all. And some might say, “Well, you wanted equal rights, now deal with it!” But here’s the thing: we gained the right to work, to be entrepreneurs, to share financial responsibilities. But did men step up to make space for us to actually do so?
⚪️Women gained rights, but society’s mentality barely changed. It may take decades—maybe centuries—if humanity survives—to erase the echoes of a time when women were only seen as caregivers.
⚪️Now we can have careers, but we’re still expected to run the household, meet all the old expectations, and oh! - never age. If we don’t fulfill these expectations, we’re seen as not good enough. The system never fully adjusted.
⚪️And let’s not even start on “equality” at workplaces.
⚪️It’s not just about society—it’s about us, too. Many women (myself included) were raised with ingrained beliefs about what a woman should be. I grew up in a culture where a woman’s fulfillment was tied to being a wife and mother. Unlearning that takes work. And those expectations? We impose them on ourselves too!
⚪️But let’s be clear—equality isn’t about extreme independence or proving we don’t need anyone. It’s about INTERdependence. We should be able to trust and rely on each other, not because we’re helpless, but because we choose to share responsibilities equally. That’s real balance.
⚪️So may all the girls grow up into women. Every step we take toward maturity and self-awareness brings us closer to true equality.
🔴Let this day be a reminder: equal rights mean equal responsibilities for all the parties involved. To us, ladies: get of your own back! You are good enough! And to our partners: if you want us there in your lows, don’t forget to show up for us in your highs.
